My thoughts are confusing to myself half the time, but I hope it makes sense in some way to you.. and also to who may read, I don't mean any harm or mean to be hurtful to anyone! Also, while you are here feed the fish and check them out, there is a little survey for my feedback also, thank you, enjoy!

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

Its going on nine years!! :) Some marriage "advice" part uno one

 As I have stated before I met Edward when I was 17 and he 18. So no joke this April we will be celebrating nine years together. I love this man with all my heart and soul, I can't imagine him not being in my life, he is my best friend and the one I rely on when times get tough. Yes all that is 100% true, but I can also say that there are times when he is a self centered ass, piss me off so bad I just wanna grab the closest pan and knock him out (no I have never actually done this), and there are times I want to tell him to get out and leave. But the thing about it is that I love him and he loves me and we know how to get under each others skin. Just because you argue or think these things doesn't mean you should call it quits and leave, that is not always the easiet option no matter how much you think it is.
  I look at a lot of my friends and so many of them are fighting and calling it quits or thinking about it. When you get into those fights or disagrements know that it is okay, it is normal. Look back on the day you met, your wedding day, the birth of your children, the birthday parties, holidays, remember those memories and think to yourself that you will not be making those memories anymore. There have been many times it probably would of been a lot easier to walk away and leave, but we didn't. We toughed out that road called life and gave her a slap in the face! You can't break us down and I hope the same goes for you in your relationship. More to come...
Mrs. Beechum
  

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